Imagining a Better Boyhood - The Atlantic


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In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid costume—on weekends and after school. Then he began wearing them to sleep in lieu of pajamas, changing out of them after breakfast. via Pocket
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Today’s Masculinity Is Stifling
As boys grow up, the process of becoming men encourages them to shed the sort of intimate connections and emotional intelligence that add meaning to life.
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june 2018 by atelathehun
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june 2018 by habi
To embrace anything feminine, if you’re not biologically female, causes discomfort and confusion, because throughout most of history and in most parts of the world, being a woman has been a disadvantage. Why would a boy, born into all the power of maleness, reach outside his privileged domain? It doesn’t compute...

While society is chipping away at giving girls broader access to life’s possibilities, it isn’t presenting boys with a full continuum of how they can be in the world. To carve out a masculine identity requires whittling away everything that falls outside the norms of boyhood. At the earliest ages, it’s about external signifiers like favorite colors, TV shows, and clothes. But later, the paring knife cuts away intimate friendships, emotional range, and open communication...

There are so few positive variations on what a “real man” can look like, that when the youngest generations show signs of reshaping masculinity, the only word that exists for them is nonconforming. The term highlights that nobody knows what to call these variations on maleness. Instead of understanding that children can resist or challenge traditional masculinity from within the bounds of boyhood, it’s assumed that they’re in a phase, that they need guidance, or that they don’t want to be boys.
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june 2018 by iamfantastikate
“Soon he will run his dear little head against that blank wall of foregone conclusions which shuts out fairyland from a workaday world.”
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june 2018 by trs
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june 2018 by bperrier
Some good points in here. I was certainly interested more in Girl Scouts than Boy Scouts! But I wasn't non-conforming in the usual gender ways, just not competitive or physical.
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june 2018 by UltraNurd
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by fritter
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by mnewt
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by AramZS
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by stevenbedrick
In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid costume—on weekends and after school. Then he began wearing them to sleep in lieu of pajamas, changing out of them after breakfast. via Pocket
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june 2018 by jburkunk
Eager to see the seedlings of change...
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june 2018 by Reneelloyd
In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid costume—on weekends and after school. Then he began wearing them to sleep in lieu of pajamas, changing out of them after breakfast.
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june 2018 by mud
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by lach
As boys grow up, the process of becoming men encourages them to shed the sort of intimate connections and emotional intelligence that add meaning to life.
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june 2018 by basemaly
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by than
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by stoleaglance
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by hybridsolidr
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by leeomara
Today's masculinity is stifling
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june 2018 by sherenejose
Jessica Love In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. For months, he wore dresses—or his purple-and-green mermaid…
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june 2018 by abrad45
Today’s Masculinity Is Stifling
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june 2018 by karsh
As boys grow up, the process of becoming men encourages them to shed the sort of intimate connections and emotional intelligence that add meaning to life. In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. via Pocket
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june 2018 by schmitz
As boys grow up, the process of becoming men encourages them to shed the sort of intimate connections and emotional intelligence that make life meaningful. In hindsight, our son was gearing up to wear a dress to school for quite some time. via Pocket
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june 2018 by drewcaldwell
I wrote for about boyhood and the confines of masculinity: .
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june 2018 by mattarguello
I wrote for about boyhood and the confines of masculinity: .
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june 2018 by doingitwrong