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Relationship Counseling for the Apocalypse - Los Angeles Review of Books
"Sustainability A Love Story By Nicole Walker Published 08.17.2018 Mad Creek Books 288 Pages"
book  review  anthropocene  climate-change  relationship 
january 2019 by tsuomela
5 Ways You're Accidentally Making Everyone Hate You | Cracked.com
"Sure it was. For you. You didn't perceive yourself as being in a position of power because that is the main advantage of power -- that you don't have to think about it. You don't think about money when you're eating at a restaurant. But you sure as fuck think about it when you're too poor to eat."
power  privilege  relationship  social  interaction  hatred 
february 2013 by tsuomela
The Secret Life of Data in the Year 2020 | World Future Society
Using these science-fiction visions, we can begin to develop a way to conceptualize the data. From the view of this narrative, our data—the data we created—becomes a kind of simulacrum of ourselves. Like Philip K. Dick’s androids and William Gibson’s cyborgs, data becomes a way to embody who we are, but at the same time it remains external. It allows us to examine who we are and also what we want to do with these systems. As we begin to architect these systems, often the reality is too hard to handle: It’s too complex for us to make any meaningful design decisions. We need these representations, these androids, to be our proxies.
data  sf  human  information-science  connection  understanding  philosophy  future  relationship  from delicious
july 2012 by tsuomela
echovar » Blog Archive » A Permanent Sense of Asymmetry: Watching the Non-Human Enter
"As Morton points out, in the age of ecology there is no clean transaction you can walk away from. The fact that everything is connected isn’t something you can turn off when it’s inconvenient. There’s always something still owed, a remaining debt. Morton describes this as the viscous quality of the hyperobject, the more you know about it the more it sticks to you. And as Graeber shows, capital fails to capture the full extent of a transaction because it doesn’t fully represent the object. In the social context of the transaction, there’s always a remainder, the market never fully clears. At the level of capital and pricing, the numbers always add up, but the object of the transaction is broadcasting on multiple frequencies. And if you hold the concept of capital in abeyance for just a moment, you’ll find there were many more parties to the transaction than you had assumed, and if you listen closely, you can hear that the non-human has continued its relationship with you. "
ecology  economics  transaction  exchange  commons  debt  capital  relationship  gifts  meta-analysis  fundamental  objects  object-oriented-ontology  literature  poetry  from delicious
april 2012 by tsuomela
Relationship Cues: Sensing the Unspoken - Deep Glamour: At the Intersection of Imagination
"Timothy Perper published research based on thousands of hours spent observing interactions between men and women in places like bars and dance halls. His observation teams discovered that women used predictable patterns of visual and tactile cues to signal a man that they would be receptive to his attention. These “contact-ready” cues were so subtle most men weren’t consciously aware of receiving them, even when they responded to them.

Perper’s research found that about 90% of women were aware that women sent such cues and could spot other women giving them, whereas only about 5 to 10% of men were consciously aware of them."
relationship  gender  perception  sex 
january 2011 by tsuomela
Study Hacks » Blog Archive » Beyond Passion: The Science of Loving What You Do
At a high level, SDT (Self-Determination Theory) makes a simple claim: To be happy, your work must fulfill three universal psychological needs: autonomy, competence, and relatedness.
work  career  happiness  experience  psychology  motivation  ambition  goals  autonomy  competence  relatedness  relationship 
april 2010 by tsuomela
How to Save the World - Ten Powerful Questions for Conversations
What stood out for you? (at a recent event they participated in)
What do you most care about?
What's the change been like for you?
questions  conversation  facilitation  relationship  advice  leadership 
september 2009 by tsuomela
globeandmail.com: Time to break the town-and-gown barrier
Rather than as an "engine" of development, then, think of the university as an ecosystem or infrastructure for a knowledge-driven, creative economy. The key to the future lies in building stronger bridges between universities and their surrounding communi
economics  academia  culture  creativity  community  development  university  town-gown  relationship 
february 2008 by tsuomela

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