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Karpman drama triangle - Wikipedia
The Rescuer: The rescuer's line is "Let me help you." A classic enabler, the Rescuer feels guilty if he/she doesn't go to the rescue. Yet his/her rescuing has negative effects: It keeps the Victim dependent and gives the Victim permission to fail. The rewards derived from this rescue role are that the focus is taken off of the rescuer. When he/she focuses their energy on someone else, it enables them to ignore their own anxiety and issues. This rescue role is also very pivotal because their actual primary interest is really an avoidance of their own problems disguised as concern for the victim’s needs.

Vulnerable – a victim should be encouraged to accept their vulnerability, problem solve, and be more self-aware.

Assertive – a persecutor should be encouraged to ask for what they want, be assertive, but not be punishing.

Caring – a rescuer should be encouraged to show concern and be caring, but not over-reach and problem solve for others.

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