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A Mentor is Nice. A Sponsor is Better, but Don’t Forget about Your Tribe
Even with this wonderful experience, both as a CEO and a lawyer, sponsorship and mentorship have often eluded me. I don’t know if it is because of my gender or the color of my skin, but I have not allowed this to determine my success. Instead, I have allowed it to fuel me. These circumstances have ultimately created a situation where I have had to rely on what many people referred to as their tribe.

Your tribe is the people that you went to school with, that work side-by-side with you, or the people that have/and or are currently facing the same challenges professionally as you. Often times they are not senior to you and you won’t be having closed-door meetings with them. But what you can count on them for, is to give you brutally honest advice, and meet with you on a moment’s notice.
tribe  mentors  sponsors  linkedin  not-the-standout  chris-tia-donaldson 
january 2018 by yolandaenoch
Who Designed The Costumes For JAY-Z's "Family Feud?" Ayanna James Is Behind Your Fave 'Insecure' Looks
The Jamaican-born designer who grew up in South Florida got her start in the industry as most do, assisting on small shoots in Los Angeles and blogging about fashion in her spare time. James then moved her way up the ranks by styling celebs like Usher, Carmelo Anthony, and Issa Rae herself. And it's that connection with Rae that gave her a life-changing opportunity.
katie-dupere  bustle  not-the-standout  jay-z  issa-rae  ayanna-james  profiles 
december 2017 by yolandaenoch
The Year I Decided That My Voice Mattered
That changed this year. 2015 was the year that I decided that I was worth listening to. That I could be so bold as to think that someone would want to read what I wrote, that someone would care about my take. If I thought someone was worth a 1,800 word profile, I would trust that instinct and go for it. I would stop questioning myself. I would take up all the space (and try to stop apologizing for doing s0).
not-the-standout  confidence  imposter-syndrome  juliana-f-reyes  medium  journalism  writing 
november 2017 by yolandaenoch
The transferable skills employers value the most
1/ Computer literacy
2/ Analytical skills
3/ Presentation skills
4/ Prioritization
5/ Communication
career-advice  careerbuilder  mary-lorenz  not-the-standout 
november 2017 by yolandaenoch
Men Just Don’t Trust Women. And This Is A Problem
But you know what I don’t really trust? What I’ve never actually trusted with any women I’ve been with? Her feelings.

So how do we remedy this? And can it even be remedied? I don’t know. This distrust of women’s feelings is so ingrained, so commonplace that I’m not even sure we (men) realize it exists. I can do one thing, though. The next time my wife tells me how upset she is about something I’m not sure she should be that upset about, trust her.
damon-young  very-smart-brothas  feminism  not-the-standout  feelings  trust  relationships  dating 
october 2017 by yolandaenoch
The Women of Color Network (WOCN) » Term: “Women of Color”
We welcome all women of Asian/Pacific Islander, Arab/Middle-Eastern, Black/African American/Caribbean/West Indies, Native/Indigenous, and Hispanic/Latin descent and hope you will join us in rising above language for unity.
women-of-color  definitions  not-the-standout 
october 2017 by yolandaenoch
Learned about in July 21, 2017, Another Round newsletter.
not-the-standout  black-women 
july 2017 by yolandaenoch
Koi (@fishnbacon) • Instagram photos and videos
Was on Lyft line. She was a vendor at the 2017 Anime Expo.
illustrator  not-the-standout 
july 2017 by yolandaenoch
CNN Politics - Army Surgeon General Nadja West
Army Surgeon General Nadja West is the first female African-American three-star general in US Army history, the highest-ranking woman ever to graduate from West Point, a wife and mother of two. Here's how a 3-star general overcame self-doubt: http://cnn.it/2s8VcO1 #BadassWomenDC
cnn-politics  nadja-west  BlackGirlMagic  army  military  profile  video  not-the-standout 
june 2017 by yolandaenoch
Diversity Advocates Resources
Learned about through Women of Color in Tech - Bay Area Facebook group
not-the-standout  diversity-in-tech  inclusion  conferences  resources 
march 2017 by yolandaenoch
Tamara Natalie Madden
Learned about through Twitter post by Danyel Smith
not-the-standout  artist  painter 
march 2017 by yolandaenoch
Kelly Diels - I usually work with leaders and creatives who are women or gender non-conforming and who might also have other marginalized identities.
And pretty much all of us struggle with a fear of public visibility.

People like Milo Yiannopoulos and his mob grow their influence not by creating something of value or contributing their talents, but by targeting us for harassment, doxxing, threats, and public humiliation.
milo-yiannopolous  online-abuse  trolling  kelly-kiels  marginalized-communities  public-visibility  not-the-standout 
february 2017 by yolandaenoch
10 Female Nigerian Developers You Should Follow
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Looking for Black and Latina Women Founders? Well, We Found Them…
not-the-standout  black-women  software-engineering  medium  funmi-amarvi 
february 2017 by yolandaenoch
Why I'm Skipping The Women's March on Washington [OPINION]
On one hand, I think of Tamika Mallory (former executive director of National Action Network), Carmen Perez (executive director The Gathering for Justice), and Linda Sarsour (executive director of the Arab American Association of New York) as living and breathing superheroes. They are the closest our shared home of New York City has to Wonder Woman, Storm and Misty Knight.
women-march  colorlines  jamilah-lemieux  not-the-standout 
january 2017 by yolandaenoch
Parlour Magazine on Instagram: “One more time...because we want MORE!
Tag your favorite #blackowned brand that is very #TravelFly - from travel-ready beauty and personal care products to passport covers and luggage tags, to weekend bags, pillows x blankets to luggage. And don't forget about #blackowned resort wear, totes, travel pouches and candles! Tag a brand, tag a friend who has a brand so they can then tell us about it, tag yourself if you have a product! The more we know, the more others will as selected brands will be included in a very special feature #OnParlour. Travel Well, #TravelFly!”
wanderlust  travel  product-hunt  not-the-standout 
january 2017 by yolandaenoch
A call to projects produced by Black Women - Daniel will RT
BLACK WOMEN: if you have a project that needs funding, a blog, a youtube channel, an endeavor of any kind, tweet it to me and I'll RT.
daniel-josé-older  black-women  BlackGirlMagic  Twitter-moments  not-the-standout 
december 2016 by yolandaenoch
The tragedy of small expectations (and the trap of false dreams)
Expectations are not guarantees. Positive thinking doesn't guarantee results, all it offers is something better than negative thinking. | It's easy to manipulate the language of expectations and turn it into a bootstrapping, you're-on-your-own sort of abandonment. But expectation is contagious. Expectation comes from our culture. And most of all, expectation depends on support—persistent, generous support to create a place where leaping can occur. There are limits all around us, stereotypes, unlevel playing fields, systemic challenges where there should be support instead. A quiet but intensely corrosive impact these injustices create is in the minds of the disenfranchised, in their perception of what is possible.

If we can help just one person refuse to accept false limits, we've made a contribution. If we can give people the education, the tools and the access they need to reach their goals, we've made a difference. And if we can help erase the systemic stories, traditions and policies that push entire groups of people to insist on less, we've changed the world.
seth-godin  expectations  language  not-the-standout  commonplace-book 
june 2015 by yolandaenoch

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