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Ambidancetrous: The Blog — "We don't want to make people uncomfortable." (aka, "What about teh menz?!")
"Ultimately, some of the worry that some straight guys will be uncomfortable dancing with other men (or being led by a woman) may be justified." Het guys: you lost the oppression Olympics, so your comfort and consent about who touches you is less important than our plan to build a utopia through dance. PROBLEMATIC. Well, OK, that bit rubbed me up the wrong way. But seriously, I think an "ambidancetrous" dance scene would be less "problematic" if the expectations (and how they differ from pretty much every other scene) were made clear up front. What I expect would happen then is that if you insisted every lesson was ambidancetrous, you'd never get enough people to make a viable community. Maybe it'd work as an option within an established scene, though.
lindy  consent  gender  feminism  lindyhop  dance 
may 2013 by pw201
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