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no monster will keep you safe at night – adrienne maree brown
if our approach to someone else causing sexual harm is gleeful finger pointing, and pushing people out of our lives and communities with a smile on our faces, then we will never actually disrupt the cycle of harm. when we approach sexual harm as if it is only in the realm of monsters, we miss the way it is our earthly burden, the way the roots of it grow under every aspect of human society, perhaps since we came into existence. this might be our first flaw and our greatest evolution. we all have to change.

and if we try to clump all levels of sexual harm together as one offense, we encourage those who have caused all manner of harm not to come forward, apologize, not to change.

the work is harder. the work is to listen to survivors and follow their lead, but from a place of being in community. we have to hold space for the complexity of everyone involved, and the belief that everyone can and will change, hopefully for the healthier. the work is to feel for what is authentic and true. the work is to notice each time we try to normalize something violent. and to have good boundaries around sex and permission and bodies in our own lives. the work is to make sure the children we are raising and loving are protected from the brainwashing and c
assault  rape  survivor  community 
january 2019 by eugenezach
39 Days to Fall in Love - OneWhoSitsWithTurtles - Inception (2010) [Archive of Our Own]
Outwit, out play, outlast. That’s the game. Sixteen castaways are stranded on the beaches of the Philippines and split up into two tribes to survive and fight for the one million dollar prize. Romance isn’t supposed to be part of the strategy, but sometimes it happens anyway.
fic  ao3  inception  arthur/eames  E  OneWhoSitsWithTurtles  C  single  AU  survivor  reality-tv 
december 2018 by wellfourthings
Ich dachte: "Das war's jetzt. Schade."

Heute vor 9 Jahren habe ich mich getrennt. Um 20:35.
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december 2018 by bjoerngrau
The Tribe Has Spoken (Luke/Reid; NC-17, ATWT) - hopefulwriter27 - As the World Turns [Archive of Our Own]
What’s my first impression of everyone on my tribe? Hmm, well, the ladies are gorgeous. I don’t know who I think is hotter, the beautiful Vienna or the luscious Katie… Oh, everyone else? Well, Reid is an a**. I hope we vote him off first. Besides, we already have one doctor. Why do we need another?

~ Henry, Television Executive
luke/reid  survivor  au 
october 2018 by meelie

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