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YOU ARE ALLOWED TO LEAVE.
"I can’t say I’ve always followed my gut on boundaries and discomfort. I can’t say I’ve never swallowed it in order to make others comfortable. But I can say what she taught me was important. It was and still is radical.
It’s radical to have boundaries. And to exercise them. Three things I think were really really important in what she did:
1. She always explicitly said 'you can leave if you want to'.
2. She never questioned why, or whether I was overreacting.
3. She showed up."
a:Erynn-Brook  p:Twitter  d:2018.09.29  w:1000  instructional  parenting  social-interaction  from instapaper
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