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Haters are just fanboys with the sign switched.
A hater is obsessive and uncritical. Disliking you becomes part of their identity, and they create an image of you in their own head that is much worse than reality. Everything you do is bad, because you do it. If you do something good, they find a way to see it as bad. And their dislike for you is not, usually, a quiet, private one. They want everyone to know how awful you are.

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fame  haters 
16 days ago by pmigdal
Twitter
RT : what’s this❓

This really doesn’t work well for the who attack

“A very real human being…
Haters  from twitter
7 weeks ago by krschu
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Alexander J.A Cortes on Twitter: "“The man that makes Enemies as means to establishing his own credibility invites chaos and creates his own end The wise know best to let one’s work speak for itself The foolish believe speaking against others makes th
“The man that makes Enemies as means to establishing his own credibility invites chaos and creates his own end

The wise know best to let one’s work speak for itself

The foolish believe speaking against others makes them wise”
Haters 
march 2019 by theessentialman
Twitter
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technology  Haters  from twitter
march 2019 by liebermansees
The Disapproval Matrix
In my ongoing quest for the perfect framework for understanding haters, I created The Disapproval Matrix. (With a deep bow to its inspiration.) This is one way to separate haterade from productive feedback. Here’s how the quadrants break down:

Critics: These are smart people who know something about your field. They are taking a hard look at your work and are not loving it. You’ll probably want to listen to what they have to say, and make some adjustments to your work based on their thoughtful comments.

Lovers: These people are invested in you and are also giving you negative but rational feedback because they want you to improve. Listen to them, too.

Frenemies: Ooooh, this quadrant is tricky. These people really know how to hurt you, because they know you personally or know your work pretty well. But at the end of the day, their criticism is not actually about your work—it’s about you personally. And they aren’t actually interested in a productive conversation that will result in you becoming better at what you do. They just wanna undermine you. Dishonorable mention goes to The Hater Within, aka the irrational voice inside you that says you suck, which usually falls into this quadrant. Tell all of these fools to sit down and shut up.

Haters: This is your garden-variety, often anonymous troll who wants to tear down everything about you for no rational reason. Folks in this quadrant are easy to write off because they’re counterproductive and you don’t even know them. Ignore! Engaging won’t make you any better at what you do. And then rest easy, because having haters is proof your work is finding a wide audience and is sparking conversation. Own it.

The general rule of thumb? When you receive negative feedback that falls into one of the top two quadrants—from experts or people who care about you who are engaging with and rationally critiquing your work—you should probably take their comments to heart. When you receive negative feedback that falls into the bottom two quadrants, you should just let it roll off your back and just keep doin’ you.
matrix  model  disapproval  annfriedman  haters  frenemies 
october 2018 by warnaars
Joseph Brodsky Explains Perfectly How to Deal With Critics and Detractors in Your Life
“Try not to pay attention to those who will try to make life miserable for you. There will be a lot of those — in the official capacity as well as the self-appointed. Suffer them if you can’t escape them, but once you have steered clear of them, give them the shortest shrift possible.

Above all, try to avoid telling stories about the unjust treatment you received at their hands; avoid it no matter how receptive your audience may be. Tales of this sort extend the existence of your antagonists;

What your foes do derives its significance or consequence from the way you react. Therefore, rush through or past them as though they were yellow and not red lights."
Haters  Psychology  Happiness 
september 2018 by theessentialman
Sooner or later, the critics move on | Seth's Blog
"Outlasting the critics feels like it will take a very long time, but you're more patient than they are."
Haters 
september 2018 by theessentialman

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