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This Is a Bully’s Language – Marcel Slimjim – Medium
I’m 24, and I’m lucky because none of my friends have died. This should not be something anyone has to say, but here we are. Not everyone I know is as fortunate as I am. It’s not every couple months…
politics  socialism  abuse  activism  disability  socialjustice  DSA 
2 hours ago by thejaymo
11 Major Signs of Emotional Abuse in a Relationship | Allure
"1: They frequently direct angry outbursts at you.
2: They criticize the way you look or how you dress.
3: Your partner insults and curses at you when they're upset, then begs for your forgiveness later.
4: They text and call you constantly to check in.
5: They refuse to leave your personal space.
6: They try to control the people you spend time with.
7: They use gaslighting tactics to manipulate you into doubting your experiences.
8: They speak for, or over, you.
9. They show physical aggression, whether or not it's directed at you.
10. They pressure you into having sex with them.
11. They shut down and withhold emotional intimacy."
abuse  relationships 
2 days ago by pronoiac
Jessica Valenti on Twitter: "Middle age adult men do not have 16 yr old “girlfriends” - they have victims https://t.co/31Zb9saHoy"
"Middle age adult men do not have 16 yr old “girlfriends” - they have victims"

re: John K. of Ren and Stimpy
twitter  abuse  predators  misconduct  crime  gross 
2 days ago by po
Rose-Colored Glasses and Emotional Abuse | MetaFilter
(On Chris Hardwick being an abusive jerk:)
“The number of Nerdist employees, past and present, who have come out to vehemently second this (along with discussions about his unabashed racism) has been startling if only because of the apparent consensus– the only people I’ve seen defending him have been people who don’t seem to know him at all.”
chrishardwick  chloedykstra  metafilter  2018  abuse 
3 days ago by handcoding
Rose-Colored Glasses: A Confession. – Chloe Dykstra – Medium
(Trigger warning: If abuse, sexual assault, or anorexia makes you uncomfortable, you might want to avoid this one.) Over the years, I’ve attempted to write this, quite literally, 17 times. I’ve…
abuse  harrassment  celebrities 
3 days ago by wn
日本から「児童虐待」が絶対なくならない理由といま必要な10の対策(井戸 まさえ) | 現代ビジネス | 講談社(1/4)
"まず、虐待家庭のほとんどは公的機関を「敵」だと思っているということを認識しなければならない。

実際に今回の船戸容疑者も「児童相談所がうるさかった」と香川県から東京とへの引っ越しの理由のひとつになったことを示唆している。

行政の目も手も入らない死角で、虐待は深刻化し、死に至る悲劇を生むのである。

ただし、当事者たちは最初から行政を敵視しているわけではない。むしろ助けを求めて市役所や区役所に何度も足を運び、窮状を訴えているケースが多い。

そこで彼らが経験するのは「たらい回し」である。"

"是枝監督の最新作『万引き家族』でも描かれたように、行政ともつながりたがらない複雑で深刻な問題を抱えた家族と社会との接点は「仕事」であり「職場」である。

必然的にそれぞれが抱えた「事情」は見え隠れすると同時に、何より経済的な自立は親自身の自己肯定にもつながる。

小さな子どもを抱えた家族が暮らしていくに十分な収入を仕事から得ていくことはとても大事であると思うし、ある程度の将来見通しが得られるか否かで、子育てに向き合う上での精神的な余裕は全く違う。"

"行政の目から「今日生きるため」に逃れようとする家族。

彼らには「役職」で接する以外の、ある意味濃厚な人間関係を築ける「家族」的存在が必要だったりする。

支援をしていてつくづく感じることだが、相談者と「遠い親戚」的な関係を築けたら、その支援は成功である。つまりは「本当に困った時に至る一歩手前で相談できる」という関係だ。"
life  abuse  death  family  kinship  official  local  government 
3 days ago by incep
Migrant children in custody surges from Trump family separation policy - Business Insider
The Trump administration's new "zero tolerance" policy toward migrants who cross the US border illegally has driven up the number of migrant children held in government custody without their parents, the Washington Post reported Tuesday.

The US Health and Human Services Department said it was holding 10,773 migrant children in custody as of Tuesday — up 21% from the 8,886 it was holding a month earlier.
immigrants  refugees  UnitedStates  child  abuse  childabuse 
6 days ago by bdwc

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